Imagine walking into your home tonight, taking off the corporate armour you have spent decades building, and looking in the mirror.
Without the title on your business card, who is standing underneath?
A while ago, I sat in a room filled with brilliant corporate minds at the official book launch of my colleague and friend, Francis Kamulegeya. He was introducing his book, “And Then What? Reflections on Life, Leadership, and Meaning Beyond Success.”
The evening began with a wave of warmth and laughter. Francis shared a story about writing a formal application letter to his mother-in-law just to ask for permission to marry her daughter.
I could not help but chuckle and wonder: did he attach a CV? Did that letter include professional referees?
It was a lighthearted, human moment. But very quickly, the laughter in the room faded into a significant reflection as Francis leveled with us. He confessed that he genuinely dislikes being introduced by his past giant titles. Why? Because “titles are temporary. They make us lose our identities.”
The Trap of the Corporate Armour
I picked up Francis' book expecting standard corporate career advice. I closed it thinking about my entire life.
In banking, in executive leadership, and across the corporate world, we wear our titles like armour. We wear them to feel safe, powerful, and respected. But here is the hard truth we so often ignore: one day, that armour must come off. Francis dares us to ask a deeply uncomfortable question: And then what?
“You are not the first to sit in that executive chair. You won't be the last. You cannot outlive your job.”
If you are successfully managing a massive office but completely neglecting your own home, you are building your life on sand. What happens when you turn 60, the candle of your career burns out, and the job ends? If you have not built a life outside of your desk, what do you have left?
Shifting from Success to Significance
True leadership is not about ownership; it is about stewardship. The positions we occupy are merely rented, not owned. We are entrusted with influence and responsibility to make things better for others, not to hoard status for ourselves.
Francis challenges us to shift our focus from mere success to actual significance:
Success
Success is what you achieve for yourself.
Significance
Significance is what you leave behind for others.
The most beautiful parts of the evening centred on what significance looks like in the real world. Francis spoke passionately about nurturing women’s sporting talent and actively opening doors so women can walk confidently into corporate boardrooms; a value he proudly credits to his mother. He spoke about being a truly present father to his daughters, raising them to be the absolute best versions of themselves.
That is significance. It does not fit on a resume, but it ripples through generations.
Knowing You Are Enough
Perhaps the most crucial lesson from that night is this: If you do not know that you are enough, you will never be satisfied.
Without this inner peace, you will spend your entire life running on an endless treadmill; chasing the next promotion, the next accolade, the next milestone, only to find that the finish line keeps moving. Your worth is not tied to your position.
Whatever we do for ourselves ends with us. But whatever we do for others is carried forward.
If you are leading a team, building a business, or navigating a demanding career today, I urge you to pause, step away from the noise, and ask yourself the question Francis dares us all to face:
When the armour finally comes off... and then what?
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